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The Fear of Becoming a Burden (or Bearing One)
Many older adults fear:
- Losing independence
- Being cared for instead of loved
- Becoming responsible for someone else’s decline
These fears are valid—and rarely spoken aloud.
Different Aging Timelines Can Create Strain
Even partners of similar ages may age very differently.
One may:
- Stay active and social
- Want to travel
- Seek new experiences
The other may:
- Prefer routine
- Face mobility issues
- Need rest and medical care
Love does not erase these differences.
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